I'm here I had turned off the computer for the night and posted the grin from my BB. I figured I'd better turn the computer on and post something.
Ok sooo they arrived at about 7:30pm (got stuck in traffic) and we had dinner. D had a shower while xh lay on the sofa. I put D to bed and he got up and put on his shoes. I went to the door with him as usual and said "what no kiss" so we pecked on the lips. He was closing the front gate and I said while eyeing him "are you sure you don't want to come in for a bit..." He paused at the gate and I said "you know you wanna..." So he said "ok 5 minutes". We sat on the sofa and we chatted for a bit. He got up to go saying he was tired. We kissed and and at which point he said "oh F it" and well you need no further details...
30 minutes later...
He said "we have to stop doing this" I said nothing. We cuddled a bit and kissed some. While he was getting dressed he started talking about the condoms...how uncomfortable they are, what brand were they, how many came in the box etc. Convo went like this...
I told him "6 to a box and we used 2 so far" He said "no, I used 2" **WTF...trying to bait me I think.** I said "nope, we" He said "well, I'll never know" so I said "I could say the same about you" He said "Yes, that's true" I told him "whatever, I'm not going to open a can of worms"
**this is the second similar convo**
I didn't fall for it and ruin a nice time. He kissed me goodbye and we made plans for him to pick us up for school tomorrow.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
I think so. I don't know about yr xH but I know that mine is very meticulous about what he asks and what he says. It's like there is always some motive behind his words whether to dig for info or to get a re-action. Either way don't even think about it.
I guess we don't owe each other any explanations because we aren't M but I know neither of us is the type to fool around and have multiple partners. I think by not falling into the trap I showed more trust and confidence. I couldn't resist the can of worms comment though. I should have said "i'm not going chasing cheese" that would have really puzzled him
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
I had turned off the computer for the night and posted the grin from my BB. I figured I'd better turn the computer on and post something.
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