H dropped in to visit with D and drop off some $. He called last night after 9 pm and wanted to know if he could pick her up and spend a little time with her. Ummmm--no. Too late, she had trouble sleeping the night before. So he came this evening ~7:30 and they had some time at his place until ~9. He came in and was relatively normal. He seems a lot less tense lately--don't know if it's because he's filed, he knows he'll have his own place soon and won't have to stay in his friends' attic, or if he's getting a lot of sex. Could be any or all of these factors! I have a feeling the "normal phase" won't last through all the divorce stuff, since we're automatically adversaries. I think he still believes it can and will be "friendly" and he won't have to make any sacrifices.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012