WOW, this is GREAT!!!! I am so excited for you! You are handling everything so well!!!! The horse is no more, you're making sweet love with H!!
I really think you should go with your gut & have the experience of living on your own. I think it will give you different gifts & strengths to bring to the table if you decide what you want is to start a new R with your H!
I don't know if I already suggested it to you, but have you read "passionate marriage" by david schnark? It is hands down the best relationship book I've ever read... totally above and beyond anything else. (And you know, I'm the librarian, I've read them all). I think it would give you massive insight into your R and your H. And yourself too (at least that's what it did for me).
I can't wait to hear what happens next!!!!!! LOVE, T
