Everyone worries about that...that's why I can't detach. What if in the end, H comes back, and I've moved on. Does that mean that I really left the M rather than the other way around? I don't want that.

Someone on here posted once (and I have no idea who it was) that the 2nd hardest thing he'd ever done was survive his W walking away from the M. Then, the hardest thing he ever had to do was tell her he wasn't interested when she tried to come back to him. I worry about that so much. It seems silly that I worry about that. I have so many other things already to worry about, and since H hasn't even acted remotely like coming back might be an option for him ever, it seems a mute point for sure!!!

Oh, well! I think, once again, your worries are normal for your sitch!!!

Amy

Me 39 H 36
S 7 S 4
T 15 M 12
H out 8/1/08
OW confirmed 8/6/08
D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!