I can't believe what I just read. You of all people should be confident in how you raised those boys. You're a great Father. I know that you have tried especially hard to do things differently. Have you ever missed a swim meet? How about all of those camps that you've taken them to? Even with the divorce you made concessions so that your boys could have their Dad in their life and you have been more than fair with their Mom, and if I know that much, what about all of the things that you provide them with that you haven't talked about?
You know the best thing that you have done is to show your kids what a good and loving relationship is all about. They see that. Are you just in a melacholy mood because time with them is flying by? Is that what this is all about? Cause I've got to tell you, if you are questioning your role as Dad, you're overthinking this!