Ah, I understand. I'm not afraid that I'll know I've moved on when I'm ready to meet someone else. It is that I'm afraid that I will be nearly to the place of being ready to meet someone else when she has a change of heart and at that point wants to work on building a new relationship. What choice would I make then? For the sake of the kids and our shared history, I might feel obligated to try building a new relationship, yet, having dealt with the pain and hurt and change etc., I might not be all that interested in trying to build a new relationship.
That's what I was trying to say and I wonder if anyone else worries about that kind of question.
