So my situation has progressed. Wife is now telling me she does not want "that" from me anymore. It makes her fill bad that I want her love but she cannot give it to me. She says she just doesn't have any attraction or interest in me, other then best friends. She wants to fill different but she doesn't.
She is now talking about separating. She wants us to date other people. (She never had that experience because we got together when she was 18) She also thinks the only chance we have of finding love again is if she can compare me to other people. She says she is pretty sure she would want to come back if I would take her. She claims all she wants to do is date other people, not have any kind of relationships.
This all sounds very suspicious to me. I have the feeling she is just leading me on so that she can go and see other people without guilt. I don't see how having the dating experience is going to bring us any closer. I think she is looking for more than just dating.
She then went on to say that we don't need to file for divorce because she thinks we will end up back together. She says it would not be that bad. She wants me to get an apartment and she will help me decorate it (what the fck!!). With two houses we can nest with our son. With her and I going back and forth from the apartment. She even wants us to keep our finances together. Is it me or is this all sound kind of crazy? Is she breaking it to me slowly that she wants out of this marriage?
