At the risk of undoing the detachment (and thus reversing what I am about to say) I have seen many reconciliations AFTER the LBS gives up and drops the rope.
Abbey and Minkerman come to mind..SallyM..You might want to check out their threads.


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing