Yes...he is totally wrong about me not thinking about his feelings...since things started going south in February all I've done is validate his feelings. Even when he moved out in June I told him I understood why he would think this was his only choice and that I realized my actions had made him feel unloved and unwanted. I have spent the last 7 months accepting complete responsibility for every failure in our R and I had finally had enough. Strangely enough I guess telling him what I thought and feel became a 180 for me. No?
About the door being closed....nothing is ever final, but I just don't see any hope for us.
