In the meantime I'm still in shock. This is a woman who has been COMPLETELY CERTAIN for these last 5 years that leaving her husband was the best choice she had ever made. She is the last person I ever expected to have this regret.
Surprisingly, some people actually wake up.
ROT,
I do NOT think these people "wake up"..... I believe it is more accurate to say "fessed up"....... I believe MANY of these people who have As or are WASs know MANY times along the way it is a HUGE mistake.... Yet, IMHO, I believe their pride is soooooooooooooooo inflated.... They cannot go back to their spouse and at least attempt to work things out......
In your good friend's case, I just think she was lying to everyone including herself she was better off without exH.........
I saw a similar thing.... Couple married with two kids... W has A...... Moves in with OM........ Ms OM...... OM starts to physically abuse her....... They D..... W wants to go back to exH.... He tells her no way........
Take Care,
RMG
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
