You had me at Pattymelt and Cosmo, but then lost me with the bacteria in the ice cubes.....Yuck!
You know what? I'll bet you a Pattymelt and I'll raise you a Cosmo if the way you're feeling isn't how your supposed to be feeling. I never felt "good enough" when I was in your shoes. I always felt as if I were a step behind, and always, always dropping the ball. I look back now, and although I did have my "Dopey" moments, they were never as bad or even as embarassing as I felt they were in that moment. You're juggling a whole lot of plates right now. You're bound to drop one occasionally.
So I am now 1 1/2 years post divorce. When I look back now I do know that I was fuzzy on somethings, and that my self confidence (especially with work) took a major hit. It took me a good year to feel as if I was ready to go back out on the ledge and take the risk. Now I am the go to person in work. Even the guys who have been here, and in the business longer, come to me with their questions. (Of course in true chick fashion I talk to people in companies all over the country, and I usually make a personal connection, men don't do this.)
The point is that I feel very good and confident with where I'm at. I didn't know that I'd ever feel that way again....surprise! With your personality......oh screw it, I'm upping that bet to 2 patty melts......You're going to be way more than fine!