You're absolutely right. He is just so angry lately, and every time he's angry it seems to make him feel guilty, which I hate even more!!!
I mean at the end of the day, if he asks me to find solutions for this, I will do that, but I want it to come from him. I want him to know that I value his input. He just has this weird thing about being busy at school and me not being supportive that might exacerbate this. Let's see if he raises the living situation. He is lucky that my company is putting me up in a corporate apartment! If we were paying RENT on another place we'd be destitute! Of course I can't tell him this...
OK. Well no matter what I will not go home early unless he asks. There is NO way that I am going to propose that scenario! Instead we'll just be in massive debt and have to cut things that he wants to do like Mexico. He'll need to figure this out on his own again though...
Alright trying to remain calm. After all, he hasn't even said anything yet! For all I know he could ignore the email or be incredibly nice about it...
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
