Close encounters of the MLC kind

[hoosiermama]

Hey Hoozh:

I haven't posted to you in a long time, but I have watched your sitch, and I just wanted to say a couple of things.....

1. Congrats on your job and the kudos you got from your supervisor indicating that you have upward mobility. That security is a really good thing!

2. I have always admired your strength and grace in dealing with what seems to be an unusually tough sitch.

3. Good riddance to that a$$, your H! I know that's not the "DB" thing to say really, and I don't like to pass judgement on someone I haven't met, and he must have some redeeming quality in there somewhere or you wouldn't have married him in the first place! But, really, the things he has done and said while still supposedly being a moral pilar of the community!! His is an exceptionally damaged soul and you are so well rid of him! This is of course only MHO, but if he ever comes to his senses and comes crawling back, just kick him in the.....shins!

Thank you. I appreciate your support!

As for my situation being unusually tough--well, the way the stars aligned to result in several crises at once, that was hard. However, I've read so many other sitches here that were immensely worse than mine, for various reasons. It's all relative, and it's all personal--we're all in pain.