Thanks for answering......... and I understand completely, I do. I just think its going to take time for me to understand it for myself and apply it. I'm guessing that for me at this very moment I am still very much in the " why " part or the blame game end of it, so I can't get all the way there yet. In listening to you and reading all that you have written it does give me hope though. I will also say that I think after all this even if for me it doesn't end up with a happy ever after as I'll put it, at least I tried it the right way this time.
Ill admit, wow, this is going to take a TON of patience like none before, and a lot of reminding myself to slow down.
