How to start from scratch in 12 Mos Separation ?

[mountainman]

We have all been there and we are all with you. Reach out to the REAL people in your life for support to, friends and family. Let us all help you through this, but the point is to get back on the horse. One of my favorite sayings (second time I used this today) is "when you're going through hell...keep going." SD, I think you stopped going and now you are stuck in hell. The only way to get out of it is to keep going. Now you have 2 choices, only 2 directions to go. 1. Keep chasing your wife and being sad and upset when she runs away from you. dude, she's running circles and keeping you in hell. Choice 2. Start walking towards your new life, without her. THIS is the only way out of hell. Let go of her, leave her behind to burn in her own hell. It is her choice to be miserable and unhappy and YOU DONT HAVE TO FOLLOW HER PATH.
I think the only hope you (or I for that matter) have is to leave her behind and start walking out of hell. Maybe we will get lucky and they will follow us out, or maybe they will need to find their own path, but this is the only way out for us.

Strength and honor SD.