Jayce....in your title thread you said "all got worse june '08" and also "divorce not an option". Can you explain what these two things mean? Is there some catalyst to why it "all got worse" recently? And as far as divorce, why is it not an option if you dont mind me asking? I am not going to try to change your mind, I am just curious as to the reason.
As for LD men - you aren't going to find any posting on this forum.
LD men don't go out seeking a reason to their "problem". LD men typically ignore that there is any problem at all and project all the blame elsewhere, typically onto their wives for being "hypersexual" or some other adjective that they try to use to explain why it is not their problem.
Have you read Diane's thread? There may be some nuggets of wisdom on there for you, too.
Was your H ever in your marriage a better lover toward you? In the beginning maybe? Were either of you ever married before? If so, do you have any clue as to his sex life before you? Also, do you know if your H masterbates, how often, and does he use porn? (I have to ask this one - there is a reason for asking...hope it doesn't insult you).
We are here to help, but we will need more info to really help in a lasting way.
