I haven't posted to you in a long time, but I have watched your sitch, and I just wanted to say a couple of things.....
1. Congrats on your job and the kudos you got from your supervisor indicating that you have upward mobility. That security is a really good thing!
2. I have always admired your strength and grace in dealing with what seems to be an unusually tough sitch.
3. Good riddance to that a$$, your H! I know that's not the "DB" thing to say really, and I don't like to pass judgement on someone I haven't met, and he must have some redeeming quality in there somewhere or you wouldn't have married him in the first place! But, really, the things he has done and said while still supposedly being a moral pilar of the community!! His is an exceptionally damaged soul and you are so well rid of him! This is of course only MHO, but if he ever comes to his senses and comes crawling back, just kick him in the.....shins!
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd