Sometimes, doing nothing can be healthy. Gives you a much needed break from R issues.

Things sound like they're going fairly well, which is really good to hear, though I'm sorry it seems H is still a bit apprehensive. Maybe since everything seems to be better than what it was before, he's hesitant in taking that leap for fear that something might mess it all up again. Who knows?

Aside from that, you sound good - and busy! \:\) Hang in there, lady!

(((((Amy)))))

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell