PS....I think I like mountain man's post better than mine..he is saying the same thing but with kids gloves.

SD..I've hit you pretty hard in some of my posts. People did it to me when I did the same behavior. It took a long time for me to 'get with it' and truly understand why they depart..why they don't come back...what works and what doesn't...and when it is time to let go and move on.

Just trying to help. Stay strong.
FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;