Last month my wife of 5 years left to NY (from Chicago) while I was at work. Typical from what I read. She said she needs 2-3 months to find out who she is and what she wants from life and that she was unhappy for the past year and that we are just too different.
Spent the first 3 weeks begging and pleading with so many "I Love You"s, of course it didn't work. I have read that I should just "go dark", does this work? Wouldn't she just think that I don't care and that its a good thing she left? Is a WAW doing a hyper hard to get thing? If I do continue to go dark (haven't talked to her since Sunday its now Tuesday)how long does this tactic take? weeks, months, years? The time for me has slowed incredibly since my job decided to take this opportunity to fire me.
