Vent away friend! and ohhhhhh you touched on another sour note w/me, the house!! same as my ex, When he left, he didnt look back, didnt want squat to do w/ this house, family life, nada. Ok fine, go your merry way I thought. What does he do? he says, well we'll sell the house! what? we worked hard for this house! it took years, I was at my job 8 yrs to get the 401K to buy it, ( btw,i started saving long before we married AND he didnt want any of my paycheck going into the 401 but I insisted for this reason!)
Well he tried to get me out, stopped paying the mort. I was a SAHM and well, it got bad. Thank God my parents helped and bought the house from us. So actually they own it, but its a buren on them. I feel bad, I pay the mort. so thats ok but things go wrong, like you say the a/c ect. and i sometimes need their help. If he had any ballz like he claimed, he didnt give a hoot about the house and what he got out of it, money wise, wasnt worth displacing his S. He spent the money on trips to Mexico already
Such clod hoppers they are Friend. I do believe the same cloth was cut to make them!
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life
