Hi, Transformer! I just got caught up on your thread -- sounds like you're making wonderful progress. You should be very encouraged by his actions -- he wanted you to help him make an important decision! Keep up the good work. I don't think it's too early to start getting a little more ambitious with your emails and conversations. You need to remember what attracted him to you in the first place. Work on that flirtatious side; he's seeing the nurturing side already, I think.
I would love to hear your music, but I must have missed somewhere what FB is.