Is it just sex....or more?????

[Amy M]

Wow!!! I think your H is doing some hard thinking!!! That's very positive. I think you have to truly search your soul and decide if you are done or if you think there's a chance. So, which is it? Have you truly decided? If not, don't tell him you have.

I know in my sitch that if my H thinks I've moved on completely, anything he might have wanted to say, he never would. He's got too much pride for that. If I leave the door open a little, and he comes around, he'll let me know. But, if he senses the door is truly closed...he won't even knock on it.

Whatever you've been doing for the past few weeks seems to be working. If you think there might be a chance that you would want to save this thing, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back in the saddle. I'm not suggesting that you stop moving forward (I've gotten kind of stuck in my sitch...kind of wrapped up in this game I'm playing, and I'm not moving forward like I should be). I'm just thinking that maybe you shouldn't be pushing quite so hard to close that door. You can explore what's on the other side without completely locking him out.

Thanks for visiting me. I've been really down this past week and 1/2, but I'm feeling better today!!!

Hang in there. You will be fine whatever the outcome.

Amy