Thanks Lisa! I don't know how I feel about it. I saw him briefly last night when he came over to pick up his stuff but we were both exhausted. It was a tad bit weird.

I'm not going to pursue him and just continue to be upbeat. I think, based on his comment at brunch about not being in any rush, that he doesn't want any pressure.

The fact of the matter is too that I want to move into my own apartment when we sell our house. I haven't experienced that independence and I want to--that feeling hasn't changed.


H & I, both 32, together since 18.
*M 7/03, A since 9/06. Bomb 7/07, H ended it w/ OW 9/08
* Agreed to D 6/09...very hard
*D 8/10
* At peace, have become great friends w/ X-H and his new GF