Hey Singledad, you are not alone. My wife accused me a couple of times of talking about her and "begging" her family members to help me. I have never asked any of them for anything, only told 2 of them what the situation was and that I wanted to work things out. There is nothing we can do about it, they will believe what they want to believe, all you can do is be truthful and it sounds like you handled it the best way you could. My W also gets angry with me over many things, though since we are moving toward mediation, she does seem to be taking things in stride more than before.
As far as time with your daughter, that is tough, but you need to adjust your focus to the time you DO spend with her rather than the time you DON'T. Fill up the time you don't have her GALing and focusing on you. It is depressing to know that things will change, but you have to accept this as reality. Do you have an IC? Do you talk to them about it?
Hang in there buddy, what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. You are in a tough spot now but it WILL get better, one way or the other, you have to believe that.
Married 6 years D4 D4 S2 seperated: 7/15/08 Dbomb: 9/21/08 status: seperated in same home, meeting with mediator moving toward D current thread
