Working on the marriage, going to C, etc. is a lot of work and takes the energy out of these guys and it could be that he cannot handle it right now although he would like to.

It is easier for him to focus on his work and also because it is an escape.

About him saying he will call you and does not--yeah, I think that is very common with these guys as well.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19