I totally understand how you feel. I am sure that if you look back before all this $h!t happened, anSaturday evening as you described it would have been fine. the problem is we have been scarred by the bomb. I think it is normal for you to expect a little more WE time and I think it would be normal for your H to try hard to show you and or give you what you want. On a positive note you guys are doing the nudge nudge so it can not be all that bad. I don`t know if any of this ,makes any sense. here is another angle. Are you expecting your husband to act in a way that he has never acted? If so perhaps you are expecting too much. You have to trust your instincts. In my case I knew and felt that my W was not into it when we tried to reconcile.
