Peicing but Angry and Confused.......HELP !

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W is planning to attend my brother's B'day party on Fri. with D6 and I.

If the talk tonight is about her coming back, that means a lot of work is going to have to be done. We do not have a great history lately of getting through issues, but it may be b/c in the past few years she was not willing to work it out and so we never got anywhere.


I don't want her coming back and being angry all the time.

Or avoiding me and our D6.

Or leaving all the housework to me.

Her biggest issue seems to have centered around the loss of intimacy and romance. She said all the other issues can be worked out, but hasn't had any idea how she could feel romantic love for me again.

I wonder if she has been listening to the 'Light His Fire' tapes by Ellen Kriedman that I gave her. If so, she would have had a good insight into what she has been doing to contribute to the lack of romance in our R.

That hug on Sat. eve. was truly affectionate. There was warmth and life in it.

Frankly, if she is willing to work on R, I think it would be good if we remained apart for a few more weeks while we get some momentum going, rather than have her move back in asap.

But, I may be fooling myself in all of this. I could be completely misreading everything.

I will know after tonight.