Hey OT--it would take some doing if that were the case--he's been "fixed", though I know one can become "un" fixed. However I simply do not see Mitch as ever wanting more kids--but what do I know? I obviously do not even know him. I do recall a conversation we had not too long before he left when he asked me something about being able to extract sperm directly out of the epiditymis (okay, probably the wrong anatomical location--but you get the point). I remember thinking it was weird because I knew we were done having kids.
But something's brewing, of that you are more than likely right. I'm waiting for him to drop the "we're getting married" bomb. In a weird way, I'm almost looking forward to a face off in court. We'll see. Ellie, I think you are right too--he's just threatening to see if he can make me quiver with fear and cave to his demands. It almost makes me laugh that he thinks I will just voluntarily agree to have him reduce his child support simply by his reasoning. He acts like he wants to settle out of court, but that's only if I agree to his terms. he pretends it is open for negotiation, but the fact is, he has it in his mind he will reduce CS by a few hundred a month and he KNOWS I will cave. He will be surprised when I do not. He doesn't seem to "get" that it will take a judge to agree to impute income to me and he and his lawyer will have to try to make a convincing case for it--frankly, I don't think they can. He must prove that: 1. It is in the best interest of the children 2. that I am willfully unemplyoed or underemployed 3. that the imputed income is reasonable for my level of training.
He will be hard pressed to make a case on any of those points.
