hey BBJ, I am sure the nightmares will stop soon. I admire your tenacity to forge ahead. Something you wrote above hit a nerve with me. Actually it is straight from the DB book. The issues that led to the EA......which i think tends to shift the blame to US....we all have issues. I think it is what we choose to do with the issues that distinguishes us from other mammals. After all, having an EA is a choice. Just like fighting for your marriage is a choice. Keep up the good fight.