I do understand. I am in living in a different country than my H and have no idea what I will be facing when I get back. Physical distance IS hard, no lie, but it CAN work to your advantage too. I really am starting to believe this. Your H is going to wonder what you are doing and I know it doesn't seem like it now, but those months/weeks will make you stronger. You might think of this as a chance to start diffusing negative energy. There will be no possibility of the kinds of fights you had last week.
Of course there are no guarantees, but I believe you will want to try everything you can to allow this marriage to work before throwing in the towel. Only you can know when you've had enough.
I'm sorry you're feeling so bad Daisy.
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
