Sounds like you're ready to detach from her and the situation. I hope you find a healthy and positive way of doing it. Let every step you take be a step forward.

For me, "letting go" also meant letting go of the anger. Hopefully one day soon you'll stop speaking about how your W is disrespecting you or how your W is affecting you negatively. I found that when I started to feel sorry for what my W is going through and actually pitying her, I knew that I was in control...of me.

Compassion breeds strength.


- Me = 32 y/o
- WAW = 32 y/o
- M = 2.5 yrs, T = 12.5 yrs
- No kids
- Bomb, WAW moved out, D filed = 8/15/08

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