I know standard operating procedure is to accept she isn't coming back and move on with life. I'm out living life a little more now, she knows it, but more importantly, I know it. W and I have become semi close (as close as you can get with a W pregnant from someone else).
No R talk going on whatsoever, just spending time with our son and helping her out if she's bed ridden from morning sickness.
been mostly going through everyone else's posts, looking for similar stuff and picking bits and pieces of advice I can use. W is telling OM how I'm there for her and how I offer to help with things. OM is clearly dumbfounded as to why or how I could be this way. unconditional love
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love