Here's hoping everyone has a great weekend....tomorrow is my son's second birthday.... Unfortunately he needs two parties because my wife won't speak to my parents.....6 months ago my brothers wife cheated on him and my wife sat there and badmouthed her.....guess who did the exact same thing and is too ashamed to face her in laws......not that she feels remorse or anything
Well.... another thing that makes it easier to detach...
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
starting to lose patience in things........wife is already getting morning sickness and I take care of her, but of course she is always texting some guy now. she has enough on her plate with her husband, OM and his girlfriend, work, and a baby on the way. grrrr
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love
I suppose its inevitable that I'm never going to understand why she doesn't understand. I hope everyone is having a great week. I'm back to work from being on vacation. just hanging out with family and my son; helping out around the house and looking after W.
Peace
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love
This is where I could use the insight of Puppy Dog. haven't heard from you in awhile. although I suppose since nothing tragic has happened to me lately, you're off helping others which is what you do best.
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love
I know standard operating procedure is to accept she isn't coming back and move on with life. I'm out living life a little more now, she knows it, but more importantly, I know it. W and I have become semi close (as close as you can get with a W pregnant from someone else).
No R talk going on whatsoever, just spending time with our son and helping her out if she's bed ridden from morning sickness.
been mostly going through everyone else's posts, looking for similar stuff and picking bits and pieces of advice I can use. W is telling OM how I'm there for her and how I offer to help with things. OM is clearly dumbfounded as to why or how I could be this way. unconditional love
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love
I would simply tell her "I don't mind helping you -- I'm doing it because it's the right thing to do -- but it's incredibly disrespectful for you to be texting OM in front of me. If you continue to do that, I won't be able to come around anymore."
Glad to see you puppy. I can't tell for sure if it's another man (unless I check her phone records later that day, but I'd rather not know) so I haven't said anything yet. The thing is she doesn't ask me to help, I just do it. It should be the OM doing it, but he's busy with his girlfriend. The whole pregnancy to him is a life ruiner.
Anyways thanks for being here when I needed you. Take care
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love
