G That sounds great!! I'm gonna try it for sure! damn tho that patty melt is on my mind too, watch before the week is over I will be having one! lol thanks for the recipe !
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life
Thank you for such gentle words. I walk around feeling .. not quite like a failure.. but that I don't do good enough. Over the past months I can tell a difference in how I approach things, not absorbing all the blame, seeing him as a whole person rather than just the husband I adored (and we both frustrated each other to no end).
A marriage ebbs with tiny nicks and cuts when they're not dealt with over time. The understanding I've gained now, along with the confidence in myself, would no doubt bring a different understanding. But.. that's playing with shoulda, woulda, coulda's. No good.
Your words give me a new lilt in my walk. Thank you.
You had me at Pattymelt and Cosmo, but then lost me with the bacteria in the ice cubes.....Yuck!
You know what? I'll bet you a Pattymelt and I'll raise you a Cosmo if the way you're feeling isn't how your supposed to be feeling. I never felt "good enough" when I was in your shoes. I always felt as if I were a step behind, and always, always dropping the ball. I look back now, and although I did have my "Dopey" moments, they were never as bad or even as embarassing as I felt they were in that moment. You're juggling a whole lot of plates right now. You're bound to drop one occasionally.
So I am now 1 1/2 years post divorce. When I look back now I do know that I was fuzzy on somethings, and that my self confidence (especially with work) took a major hit. It took me a good year to feel as if I was ready to go back out on the ledge and take the risk. Now I am the go to person in work. Even the guys who have been here, and in the business longer, come to me with their questions. (Of course in true chick fashion I talk to people in companies all over the country, and I usually make a personal connection, men don't do this.)
The point is that I feel very good and confident with where I'm at. I didn't know that I'd ever feel that way again....surprise! With your personality......oh screw it, I'm upping that bet to 2 patty melts......You're going to be way more than fine!
G, dont take that bet!!!! Beth is gonna win it for sure.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
