Yes, my H walked in from work one night, we sat down for dinner & I was telling him about my day, I was very happy & excited. He said I hope you will be happy, I said what are you talking about. He said we have to talk, he said "I want a divorce". I never saw it coming!!!
I can't remember if I said this earlier in my post about what my exSIL said, but I'll repeat. She said that the OW rushed him into everything, divorce, quitting his job, him moving to another state & marrying her. She said that she saw that he was vulnerable & moved on it quickly. She said she wanted him away from here & away from me cause she felt like he would come back to me if she didn't move quickly. I honestly think that if we would have had a cooling off period instead of rushing divorce & also would have gotten couseling none of this would have happened. Too late for if's, and's or but's now. I hope one day!
My parents are such a blessing, they are wonderful!!!!