Hi TxMom, I am sorry I cannot give you a success story but I am in the same boat and feel your hurt and pain. My H is moving the end of this month. He is not happy and in A with OW from work (she works for him). Don't mind read your spouse and remember a 25 year old OW will lose interest quickly especially with his future baggage. My H is also a stranger right now. I am taking one day at a time. Claims he was never happy in all 21 years now. People keep telling me this is normal. They are in full blown MLC. Follow some of the threads ...it really helps.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09