Wow Bagheera, you are something else I have to say! I am so impressed with what you and your wife have done, and are doing. Good for the both of you, and for the patience it must take to keep on going.
The more I read as time goes on, I honestly don't think I have it in me to do it. I have a question for you. I have been kind of relating to you in the sense that I'm the female version ( sorta ) of you. Hope you know what I mean there. So, in saying that, here's my question to you...... Don't you ever feel cheated? I mean, should it be that dang hard?? I know marriages and relationships are work, and I get that, BUT........ hell, should wanting a spouse or partner to want to " WANT " you be this much work?? Just a question...... and again, WOW to u !!
