I am just going to say "Amen" to everything Ali said to you. If the things your xh is telling you are a problem for him, are things you realize are not the most attractive qualities about you, then whether he comes back or not, it's time for you to take the steps to really change for YOU.
Ali is spot on, you can't just stop for now, you have to actually take steps to change, and you have to be doing it for you. If you really want to make these changes, you have to stop focusing on your H and focus on you.
You've been doing a good job with GAL, making new friends, getting out of the house, doing something for you aside from xH and D. All very good things. Keep up the good work.
No saggin skin for a tattoo? I knew I got that ink of the Eiffel tower in the wrong place.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Hi Amy! You guys have been wonderful. I agree 100% and I will make the changes now. There is no more trying for me. These changes need to be for me and my D6 and if xh comes home great but if not I know a future R will be healthier than any I've had before.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
