I think I'll go a little dim now too (as much as one can when there's a child AND business involved). I have noticed that I'm calling much less than I have been and the texts are less frequent too.
I need to stick with this darkness/dimless a bit more.
Darkness keeps me from opening my big fat mouth and saying something stupid...what? who me?
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Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
I think my hubby thinks that about me too. I compulsivly read marriage books and he used to read some too but after awhile when I would suggest a new book he would look very skeptical and say "they don't work anyways" and off we would go! It made me so mad. But looking back I'm like, yeah, you're probably right.
So I think I might try to NLP thing too. I have a beautiful charm bracelet that my hubby gave me for Christmas when we were still dating and has added onto it over the years. I might go dig it out of storage and wear it when I am going to be around him to remind myself to keep it cool and calm!
I was surprised when xh went off with The Four Agreements and actually refers to it sometimes. Years ago he read some of Mars/Venus. He thought the 5 LL was a bit strange but maybe one of these days he'll pick it up. Hopefully he'll never see DBing.
I tried 3 times to read The Power of Now by Tole but I can't get into it.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
I really like 5 LL we actually did that book in premarital counseling. Trouble is hubby doesn't seem to have a LL. I read the book again last year and it popped out that people who had trouble childhoods may have difficulty feeling love and therefore may feel they do not have a LL.
I believe xhs LL is WOA and I wrote "words are important" on the bathroom mirror tonight to remind me of that. I wonder what he'll say when he sees it lol
There must be someway that shows your H that he is loved???
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
They are playing your song on the radio by Chubbywubba.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
I think that he does pay a lot of attention to the things I say so maybe something along the same lines as your xh. However when I ask him he always brushes it off as if it doesn't matter. I think he also might be quality time because he really likes when I do things with him, even just laying in his lap while he plays a video game.
