Hi Jayce....I am not sure what this means: "OK, my 2nd step looks like his needs/wants are sleep, food, wine or beer, TV and apparently "a body" in the room with him and in the bed with him."
Without any introduction or anything, I'm not sure what kind of advice you are seeking, so can you please start over with an intro and tell us what you hope to gain by getting feedback? You may have felt that you were clear on this in your post, but since you posted on a different thread kind of in the middle of someone in a similar position posting, I think yours is going to get lost unless we start over here.
