They broke up I would say around 2 months ago. I know this from our phone records (cell phones) but when he talks, it sounds like months at a time. So, I think it has been down hill for around 6 months.
H & I, both 32, together since 18. *M 7/03, A since 9/06. Bomb 7/07, H ended it w/ OW 9/08 * Agreed to D 6/09...very hard *D 8/10 * At peace, have become great friends w/ X-H and his new GF