the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget.
Hi All Happy Fall!
Ok so said I wasn't going to start a new thread, butttt, well its a womans prerogative to change her mind, and so many here do, a few times a day lol so here I am. Deal with it! lol
Weekend was nice, painted the kitchen! a sunny, happy yellow! I love it! goodbye teapcups, hello sunny happy ,,,,,stuff!
Ry left for Boston Thurs. night. Seems , from what I can gather had a great time. Hes en-route back right now. Will be happy when hes home, yes even L.A home lol its closer
He went w/ his dad as that's were ex is from. Seems a good time was had by all, a bit too much of a good time Sat. night! but whatever. Personally if I ever got a change to go back to Boston I'd love to see the historical sites. but alas, we are talking a 23 yr old guy here and a very MLC " i dont wanna grow up I'm a toys r us kid" dad, so a tour of the pubs was about all I could gather they did, that and the Pats game.
Fri. night in Ex hometown they met up w/ quite a few of ex old high school and college buddies, odd as when we were there 7 yrs ago, he didn't even try to get in touch w/ them. ( prob ashamed he was a family man, ugggh lol)
S text me and said they were nice guys and they were h aving a real good time. Somewhere during the night, S and Ex started texing me repeatedly, Ex was teasing me that he was gonna try to get S into law school in Boston, I told him my cuz went there and its a great school, he was trying to yank my chain- knowing I'd prefer S closer to home, then S would tm me that dad was being a goof and so on and so on , I got a few jabs in at ex re: all his buddies had to leave to go home to WIVES
Sat. night a different story. Ex answered S phone after I had became concerned after 12 hrs of no return text, Ex yelled at me that they were fine and not to call sons or his phone! WOW. I asked B , was I rude? he said not at all, I told him Ex had just yelled and told me a thing or two and he said consider the source and a drunk source at that.
What a buffoon, after I hung up, I thought, who the he!! does he think he is?? When we were married Ex would go out and not call and I would pace and pace, waiting for a call or something , I worried sick! yet R is sooo good at not letting me worry so this was out of character, I do wonder about his dads influence.
Hence I chose this quote,I find myself letting my guard down and thinking we've passed the bitterness and hurt part--- then--I am reminded of how selfish and uncaring ex can be.
oh well, they seem to have a good time that's all that matters.
ok just wanted to get this thread started and journal a little. If anyone is still awake, bars open! lol
I have lemon drops if anyone is so inclined, or whatever your pleasure.
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life
