Thanks so much Lisa. I'm glad that you think that.
Can I ask for one more bit of advice?
I dont care that he has been sleeping with other people, using porn (well a bit). The thing that I really dont like is why he TOLD me about it. Its like he doesnt think about how it makes me feel. Actually he knows for sure that it would upset me. He's not trying to 'win' me back and impress me - he's just thinking about himself.
Anyway after that conversation I actually dont want to see him or talk to him for a while - I want a break. So I'm not really thinking its punishing him, more just giving him a chance to miss me again, and figure out that he needs to try and woo me. What's the worst that could happen?? He might not be bothered trying to get my attention, and then he would miss out on having fun with me!
