My H has had multiple affairs, AND I am not succesful yet, but have had days to think and realize, I am fully intent on dbing my marriage, saving it, and am gonna be sucessful.
saying, I am chosing to do this, my heart is all in it, my brain is with help from people here, gonna make it, and if I cant do it, I can honestly and peacefully say thru my tears, i tried my best.
You are truly an amazing person for keeping up the work.
I've trying to save my M for over 2 years; I really wish I had found this site back then. Maybe our M would have stood a chance with my changing my ways. Obviously, what I have been doing is working. I know that it is not my fault for her A's; but maybe a change in me could have prevented the repeat occurrences. But who knows? It's probably just in her blood.
