OK so after the 'high' there has to be a low... need your input and advice on this.
H sent me a few text messages yesterday thanking me and saying that he had an amazing night. Then he rang me last night just to chat - I'd just got back from an aerobic class, which is 180 and GAL. We chatted about the day etc.
Then he told me that he had just got off the phone from his mum. He said his mum had been asking / nagging him about his life. e.g. how many cigarettes is he smoking, how uch s he drinking, does he have any fresh fruit or vegetables in his fridge etc etc. then he said his mum had asked him about pornography, and he had told her that he was single and he was OK with it, and she had said be careful it can lead to an addiction.... and then I sort of changed the subject and we laughed about his mum. (Obviously not funny and they both have boundary issues. But he immediately came back to the conversation about porn and that he had told his mum that he was single and he can watch pron and sleep with random women. He was saying this in a OMG its so funny way. And I think I said "I guess you must have had to be there" ie. I'm not really sure what I'm supposed to be saying here. The weirdest part was that it really felt like he had to make a point about being single and sleeping with whoever. At this point in the conversation I said that I'd better go and get some dinner. So I left the conversation in a light and breezy tone.
Am I over-reacting? I'm not stupid that of course he hasn't been Mr Virgin while we've been separated, but why he needed to tell me like that, I'm not really sure.
Anyway I'm going dark now. he's going to have to get himself out of that little whole he dug! I'm going to ignore at least the next 2 times he tries to make contact and be busy all weekend.
