Things sound good, as always. I would like to point out that when she was talking about how you and her would have each other to do those things with, I doubt she was confused about what she was saying. How bout for the sake of argument you just assume you are not separating or divorcing.
I think your party experiment was fine. Isn't that what we are supposed to do...change things up and monitor for results?
One thing, and it's probably just my crazy maker, but have you ever thought that she's just playing this "separating and divorcing" thing because she likes how you've become and is afraid you'll be the old you if she doesn't keep you worried? I do. Is this her DBing you? She dropped bomb, got positive result, saw babysteps, so intermittently re-drops bomb to keep you being a good husband?
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
