On this,

I'm torn...

H said that I never supported him while in school, i.e. that I was not "emotionally there" and understanding of how busy he was. He always asked me to do the budget because he had no time.

In this case, I am not sure if it is better to ask for him to help or to continue to do it. He STILL bemoans how busy he is, and I want to be seen to be supportive. What if I do it, say that I am doing it because I know how busy he is, but that I would love his opinion/input on it if he has time? I do this anyway and he usually doesn't have one...

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!