I was just thinking it would be a 180 for me to basically put off seeing him. At this point he seems to think my world revolves around him, so if he saw that I put our finances above meeting up, it would be quite the 180...We've been discussing finances amicably for ages, but now he is under the impression that everything about the budget is basically my fault, because of course he is the victim in this relationship and went on loads of expensive trips to appease me:).
He brings up the budget constantly, so I was thinking of just sending an email the day before I got paid to say that we were really short this pay period because I wasn't getting a bonus this month (he needs to be reminded that my money counts), and did he have any suggestions for how we could make changes to the budget. I will show a few of my own, that I am cutting my personal trainer, and then was thinking of mentioning that in addition to this I didn't really think we could afford for him to visit Poland. It would just be one of my budget cutting suggestions. What do you think? Should I still not do this?
H is driving me crazy lately and I think he's having a semi MLC. Still fairly sure that there is not nor will ever be an OW, but he still is having some existential crisis that I am not finding amusing at the moment, and acting like a child from time to time.
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
