Coach,
That's great that your W wants to work on the M. You sound ready to tackle the issues. Things will improve in your M, though it will be bumpy along the way. Change doesn't occur without some pain.

CL


CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching